Pregnancy and Self-Harm

Experiences With Doctors

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Being pregnant means prenatal care. Which by most accounts means being pretty much naked in front of your OB/GYN.
The long sleeves, thigh length socks, pretty much not an option anymore. They see all. And at this point I am sure the least of your worries will be the fact he/she is soon going to be probing your most intimate part and more on the scars you know they will see.
So what have been experiences from doctors and caregivers?

"When I had my first prenatal visit with my OB/GYN, I had only gone in to sign paperwork, have basic health tests like weight/height and blood pressure, then to have blood work taken. Offering the left arm was an easy answer for those where am arm was needed, and no questions were asked. However, when I was informed that the doctor would be able to see me shortly as she had had a cancellation, the heart palpatations started.  I was always scared to death of this point, I hate the judgement from other people, I hate people hating me. I felt sure the doctor would think ill of me for having a child. I was nearly in tears getting into the gown to have the examination. Thankfully my boyfriend saw my distress and went outside the room to speak to the doctor before she saw me.
Her answer to him was simply "She doesn't have to worry".
She was completely professional when it came to my scars, made me feel at ease and seemed more interested in my tattoos. It was so much better than what I imagined, which included being removed from the office by security." -personal experience.

 

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